Friday, November 2, 2012

Balancing Act

It's been an interesting fall. 50 Shades of Grey and teenagers has created a bit of a stir on our campus. The first conversation was with one of my male student assistants who asked if I was going to get the books. He loved the Twilight series and wondered if he'd like that one. The next encounter was with a senior English class coming in to check out books for our SSR time. Several students had their own books with them already and six or seven of them were reading one of the 50 shades series. Next, came the girl who had read book one and was hoping I had book two and three for her to checkout. Then was the young lady in a math class in the library getting SSR books who asked her teacher if she could bring the book from home to read. I asked if her mother knew she was reading it and she said "she was with me when I bought it". Then yesterday our English Language Development coordinator stopped by to ask me what our "policy" was on students bringing books like that to school. Which brings me to the balancing act...as a librarian I embrace the concept of students being able to read anything they want, but I worry that the images and pictures in their heads set them up for a reality that doesn't exist. I'm trying to have conversations with students about the book that isn't judgmental.

I started this post several weeks ago, but never quite finished it.  The questions continue and balancing the "right to read" versus appropriateness for a teenager.  At the same time, telling them they "can't read it" makes them want to read it all the more.  No, I won't purchase it for the library, but I will continue to have the conversations.

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Books are personal

I've read two YA books in the last month that resonated with me personally.


Once in a while a book comes along that haunts you, grabs your emotionally and doesn't let go. Recently, I read A Monster Calls by Patrick Ness. Maybe it's my own health circumstances that caused the book to hit me so hard. Maybe, it's the memory of watching my brother die 11 years ago and knowing I couldn't stop it. Conor's nightmares are real and they shape his own beliefs. The Monster comes along to show him it's not so bad and it's not wrong to feel the way he does. Do our nightmares reflect ourselves?


The second book was John Green's The Fault was in our Stars.  I loved how Green took a serious subject and approached it from a humorous and realistic standpoint.  Cancer can be funny and the actions and reactions of others can provide moments that are both amusing and stressful.  Augustus and Hazel's journey with their own disease and with each other is poignant, moving and heartbreaking.  


What happens when a book comes along that moves you emotionally? What about the student who is moved by a book? Do we honor that? Do we acknowledge the power of words .